Haven't we all experienced a "first time"?
Yes, we have!
And it's usually an event that we won't easily forget, whether it was a good, not-so-good, or even a bad experience. This first time stays engraved in our mind and memory, or at least in our subconscious. Your first kiss, your first time at the cinema, your first holiday experience, your first love, your first heartbreak, your first sexual encounter...
Oh, those first times. We often fantasize about them in advance, aspire for them to happen, imagine different scenarios, and picture how it will go. And generally, in our heads, these first times are perfect. There are, as in movies, roses and fireworks, heavenly and happy, and definitely something worth remembering. A first time that makes you smile every time you think about it.
Don't we all want that?
And that's what I wish for you too!
So, I'm addressing you: my dear curious, perhaps a bit nervous gentleman or lady, or couple. To those who will seek my company for the very first time. Because I genuinely want your first time with me or any other girl to be close to perfection. So, if you have finally decided in your mind that you want to see an escort, a provider, or a companionship girl. If you're seeking a pleasant encounter with a lady of your choice and you even start searching for it. I guess you still have 101 questions popping into your head. Let me give you some tips to make sure your first time hits close to a 10/10.
Disclaimer 1: Even if you are not a 'first-timer' anymore, you can still read on too. It will be a nice refreshment of your go-to's on how to look for and approach a possible new companion.
Know what you want: What are you actually looking for? The variety of answers to this question is very large, and all of them are valid; there is no right or wrong. It is a matter of knowing it very clearly for yourself and being able to put it into words. Do you want a short time (2 hours) or a longer encounter (4 hours and more)? A quick fix, a sexual release, or are you in need to dive deeper and long for connection? Is it affection you are missing? Or are you just curious to experiment with new sexual stuff? Maybe even longing for a porn star experience? Are you stuck in some monotony, and you need variety? Or maybe you have a stressful job where you are in charge all the time and you want to indulge in pleasure where somebody else will take care of you. Do you have a kinky fetish that you want to try out? Is it important for you to have a nice conversation first? Do you want some company during dinner time? In all of these cases, you will find a girl for every one of those needs. Not every provider will accept everything. But you will definitely find your match. Then of course, you will know for yourself what physical traits you prefer. Blond or brown, tall or shorter, slim or curvy, age range, tattoos or not, natural or enhanced boobs, which languages does she need to speak and so on. These are all characteristics on which you can base your choice.
DYOR (Do Your Own Research): So once you know for yourself what you want, you can start looking for providers. Nowadays, this is mainly online. On TCR, you can already find a wide range of girls, with all different personalities, physical traits, and physique. So take a coffee or tea and start looking at and reading their profiles. Be thorough, and don't just start contacting somebody by just taking a glance at their pictures. No, put in the work, read her description and how she introduces herself; some hidden gems can be in the text. And in this way, you already get a kind of feeling for who she really is. The reviews stated online on the TCR site are genuine, double-checked, and give an impression of how other people valued their company. A small tip: stay away from external review sites to learn if other people had experiences with providers. Just don't read them. An experience is very subjective. And what one person likes is a dislike for somebody else. If you define what you want clearly and are able to express that in your introduction, you will get very far. If you still are unsure and don't want to contact any of the girls straight away, you can always fill in the Matchmaking form on the TCR website. You will get recommendations based on your needs, which girl would fit the best.
Make a good introduction: You never get a second chance to make a first impression. So when you made your choice and intend to contact me or any other girl, make sure you do it in a proper way. Find out first how she prefers to be contacted. Do you need to fill in a booking form on a website, does she prefer a text message, WhatsApp, or a phone call? In general, high-class providers will be most pleased with filling out a booking form on the website, or being addressed by email in a nice and polite way with full sentences. What should this introduction contain: - a short introduction and description about yourself. And tell her it's your first booking.
- some compliments on the girl go a long way 😊 and you can even explain why you choose her
- what you are looking for (companionship, girlfriend experience, kink, pornstar experience, etc.)
- a precise proposal which includes the day you want to meet, the possible start hour, the location (hotel, sauna, restaurant, or other), and duration of your meet-up
- ask if a deposit is required (never discuss prices, see point 3 of my blog post on Boundaries). So in general, a lot of stuff can be discussed by exchanging some emails back and forth. But keep it professional, straightforward, and to the point (see also number 5 on my blog post on Boundaries). Until you have set a date for a meet-up.
Prepare Yourself: So you've come a long way. The day to meet up is coming closer. Be a gentleman and confirm your rendezvous the day before so that she knows it's still on. If needed or asked, you can provide proof of your reservation at the hotel, sauna, restaurant, or other (you can always blank out personal details). Now that the day has come, prepare yourself like she will prepare herself for you. This means showing up showered and clean, nicely dressed, and make sure you smell nice (including your breath). Nerves will speed up at 100%, and there she is... Even more beautiful than you imagined. The first thing you do is hand over an envelope containing her fee for the time you will spend together. She will kiss you on the cheek, and in less than 10 minutes, she will put you at ease. And memories of your first time will be made.
Disclaimer 2: One last note for the non-first-timers. Try to refrain from telling us it's your 'first time' when it isn't. Don't claim or pretend that. Maybe you do it because you think it's better that way or you just want to make a good impression. Don't worry, we won't judge you for seeing other girls before us. Just be honest about it. And also know that we will notice it anyway, that